In a world full of negative press and happenings do you know how refreshing it is to hang around children. Children who walk in to our mentor session every week demonstrating the newest dance trend, children excited by the fact they had just won a £5 book voucher in a poetry competition and children who are simply grateful to be in your company.
Every week I look forward to my Thursday afternoon. With it being close to the end of the week and by this point tiredness has truly set in and work has managed to get on my last nerve, I leave work feeling deflated. However fast forward an hour and I’m sat in a classroom waiting for my mentees to come in and I feel enlivened.
Once a week I mentor with ReachOut Charity who work with young people in disadvantaged communities to raise aspirations and help them grow in character and attainment.
Unfortunately as the summer holidays are now in full force we are also taking a break (not that I needed one), giving me time to reflect on the wonderful few months my mentees and ReachOut gave me!
The whole operation is run by volunteers, and it’s truly one of the only organisations that do it solely for the people. Over the last few months I’ve had the chance to work alongside a number of the children that attend and can see how the program effects them differently however all of them grateful.
The children that attend these sessions have been recommended by their school. They may be struggling with their academics, or struggling with their confidence. They may need further social interaction and inclusion, or simply looking for a mentor and friend they can confide in. Some of these children may be dealing with issues outside of school, within their family unit and we, as mentees, are there to offer a friendly face, a safe place and someone they can speak with.
The diversity of children that attend is fascinating to me. As a girl who grew up in sunny Blackpool we weren’t blessed to be surrounded by as many cultures, religions or races that we have in London. I listen to the stories the children tell me of their families and it’s truly fascinating. I quickly become the child with a 1000 questions to ask and they happily answer. We recently discussed and celebrated the Windrush generation, and my mentee was proud to tell me his great grandparents were part of that history!
I would be lying if I said I was volunteering selflessly. Initially I joined to help and try and make a small difference, however I can’t deny the massive difference it had on me every Thursday afternoon. I leave feeling happier than I’ve probably felt all week. I would highly recommend trying it! For a short period of the week you get to observe small humans, who although facing problems themselves, don’t seem affected by the worlds happenings. I’m not suggesting adults should be blind to the world and news however for those two hours I feel blissfully unaware and it’s a much needed, refreshing break.
Go and help, volunteer your time to people that need it. It doesn’t have to be children, it can be the elderly, the homeless, the sick but there is something magical about the pure presence of children.
You can find out further information about the programmes and work ReachOut do here.
Over and out lovers,
G.