What’s on you mind? Let’s discuss!
There is still a big stigma around the topic of mental health, and people feel like they can not openly talk about it for fear of ridicule or disbelief. But let’s talk and I’m sure you’ll be soon surprised to find out that it is a lot more common than originally thought!
I am going to give you a few stats that back this up but firstly I would like to talk honestly, personally, on real relatable level. Hi, my name is Gabrielle and I suffer with anxiety. Am I happy? Yes. Do I live a good life? Yes. Do I talk to all my friends and family about my anxiety? No.
I remember my first panic attack as clear as day, I was 10 years old and was playing in the living room with my sister. Then ‘thought’ happened and panic set in. My chest tightened, and being a child I panicked. I didn’t know what was happening, how to cope and subsequently how to breathe. Before I knew it I was hyperventilating for over an hour and my now panicked mother took me to a&e. An hour and a couple of faints later I was back home with a brown bag, fancy new hospital wristband and a story to tell.
I suffered panic attacks throughout my childhood, usually relating to an event that had happened which I couldn’t control or solve. I mostly had the attacks under control and even when I would suffer at uni as an adult (kinda) I simply shrugged it off as something I had just always suffered with, no further thought into it.
Over the last two years mental health has been widely advertised and it was then I realised what I had been suffering with all those years was anxiety. It still effects me and I’ve started to learn better ways to deal with it. One that has proven most affective is to talk about it, as simple as that. Discuss your worries and thoughts, after all a problem shared is a problem halved no?
I am fortunate enough where my anxiety doesn’t effect me living my life, or enjoying it. But that is not the same for everyone (now here comes the stats).
Stats I know in my life:
* 3 out of my 10 closest friends have suffered with mental illness
* 2 out of 2 sisters suffer/suffered with mental illness
* 1/2 parents suffers with serious mental illness
That’s 6/14 people in my life (and that’s only the ones I know about and have discussed with) suffer with mental illness.
Here are the stats for the UK from April 2017:
Approximately 1 in 4 people in the UK will experience a mental health problem each year.
In England, 1 in 6 people report experiencing a common mental health problem (such as anxiety and depression) in any given week.
The overall number of people with mental health problems has not changed significantly in recent years, but worries about things like money, jobs and benefits can make it harder for people to cope.
It appears that how people cope with mental health problems is getting worse as the number of people who self-harm or have suicidal thoughts is increasing.
Men listen up! Suicide is the biggest killer of men under 50 in the UK. The most probable explanation of this is that there is still a stigma surrounding mental health that men feel they can not talk about it to friends and family. Apparently it is seen as emasculating to have feelings and to express these such emotions. It is not. Talk about your thoughts and feelings. Talk to a friend, or family, a neighbour or a stranger, just make sure you are talking!
Men and women listen up! If you don’t have someone you feel you can confide in, then this is where Mind comes in. They are there to listen to you, talk to you and help you. Use them!
Wow well this has been a deep, heart-on-sleeve post and yet probably one of my most important ones. I am running every day in January (R.E.D. January) for Mind charity for various reasons. Firstly it’s a great way to clear your head (seriously, give it a go), secondly and most importantly to raise money and awareness for the wonderful work Mind do.
Sorry for being preachy, and whether one person reads this and it makes a difference or 100 people read it and it makes a difference to one person, I will be happy.
(I promise the next post will be an easy read).
G.